http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203 A Rare Bird, A Strange Duck, One Funky Blog Sun, 23 Nov 2008 13:58:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-62467 Teenaged Girls Oral Sex - Dogpile Web Search Thu, 14 Feb 2008 06:44:01 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-62467 <!--%kramer-ref-pre%-->[...] [Found on Yahoo! Search, Windows Live, Ask.com] 2. Goin' Down (or, a Young Woman's Perspective on Why Oral Sex Sucks ... The fact that they have a casual attitude towards oral sex is part of the problem. ... "I [...]<!--%kramer-ref-post%--> [...] [Found on Yahoo! Search, Windows Live, Ask.com] 2. Goin' Down (or, a Young Woman's Perspective on Why Oral Sex Sucks … The fact that they have a casual attitude towards oral sex is part of the problem. … "I [...]]]> http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-13457 John Sun, 09 Jul 2006 13:23:42 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-13457 It's a philosophy where to lick to make pleasure to the girl/boy. But it is well known men likes oral s... and raise their self-essteem like Kelly said :-) ]]> http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-9554 Ales Rarus - A Rare Bird, A Strange Duck, One Funky Blog » Making a Mountain Out of a Miniskirt Wed, 12 Apr 2006 16:07:03 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-9554 [...] Is NFP Just Another Form of Contraception?Investigating NFP: PrefaceWhy Is Prostitution Illegal?Apology Due to Michael Schiavo?The Church in the Modern WorldSenator Specter's Snake OilYet More Adult Stem Cell AdvancesLiturgical Soapbox: Humility, Contrition, and Petitions in the Tridentine and Novus Ordo MissalsShut Up and Fill the PrescriptionInvestigating NFP: Pius XI Featured Posts Making the Best of a Bad SituationIs NFP Just Another Form of Contraception?Religion as Sacred and Science as ProfaneAn Analogical Argument for the Legitimacy of Religious ExperiencesGoin' Down (or, a Young Woman's Perspective on Why Oral Sex Sucks) Recent Posts [...] http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-8638 howard Sun, 26 Feb 2006 17:07:56 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-8638 Not exactly about oral sex, but I think it's along the same lines psychologically... I had a friend who (unbeknownst to nearly every on of her family and friends) had what I could only describe as a sexual addiction. She was obviously miserable most of the time, but she would insist that sleeping with different people whenever she simply felt like it. I guess it was scary that almost nobody even knew about it (she hadn't even informed her different partners apparently), but even scarier was that she didn't realize the risk it posed to everyone involved. Her attitude was, "well, I always use condoms, so it's no big deal." I wasn't too good at encouraging her to seek help. It seemed like every time I tried to talk to her about it, she just got more indignant.
I had a friend who (unbeknownst to nearly every on of her family and friends) had what I could only describe as a sexual addiction. She was obviously miserable most of the time, but she would insist that sleeping with different people whenever she simply felt like it.

I guess it was scary that almost nobody even knew about it (she hadn't even informed her different partners apparently), but even scarier was that she didn't realize the risk it posed to everyone involved. Her attitude was, "well, I always use condoms, so it's no big deal."

I wasn't too good at encouraging her to seek help. It seemed like every time I tried to talk to her about it, she just got more indignant.]]> http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-4347 emily Sat, 25 Feb 2006 14:41:59 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-4347 I think you make a very good point. NY Metro had a piece a few weeks ago about a group of teens at Manhattan's Stuyvesant HS who call themselves "The Cuddle Puddle" -- they hook up with each other routinely. Guy with guy, girl with girl, guy with girl, it doesn't matter. The teens interviewed made it sound like "no big deal" that they treated their sexuality so casually. These teens think that their only worth is as sexual beings -- that they are worthless unless they engage in activities like oral sex. The article absolutely broke my heart. (And I'm not an old fuddy-duddy, either. Like you, I'm in my early 20s.)
NY Metro had a piece a few weeks ago about a group of teens at Manhattan's Stuyvesant HS who call themselves "The Cuddle Puddle" — they hook up with each other routinely. Guy with guy, girl with girl, guy with girl, it doesn't matter. The teens interviewed made it sound like "no big deal" that they treated their sexuality so casually. These teens think that their only worth is as sexual beings — that they are worthless unless they engage in activities like oral sex. The article absolutely broke my heart.

(And I'm not an old fuddy-duddy, either. Like you, I'm in my early 20s.)]]> http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-4333 Anonymous Fri, 24 Feb 2006 15:57:29 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-4333 I never said it only went one way. Guys should also find healthier ways to raise their self esteem. We shouldn't teach people to find their self worth in what they can "do" for people, rather in who they are. http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-4329 kelly Fri, 24 Feb 2006 09:53:06 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-4329 I like boys to raise their self-essteem by going down on me - it works both ways - any boy whose good at giving oral sex is connsidered good to be around if he knows the right places to lick and suck and does it for a long time http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-339 Jerry Nora Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://alesrarus.funkydung.com/archives/2203#comment-339 Well said, anonymous.